Well after spending the entire morning playing with it, I finally got it
starting like a normal car with the relay.  Wanted to thank everyone for
assisting me in this project.

I ended up replacing the cable from the auto shifter to the starter
(ignition cable) with a 12g cable.  One replaced, I found a ground spot an
Voila, started like a charm.

I also made a small hole under the rear seat and ran the cables from the
relay, through the hole and to the solenoid and ignition cable.  I did that
so I won't have to ever go under it to replace the relay or hot wire it.  It
is cool!

Thanks

Nate El Great
85 GL- Starting like a normal car.